Frank Bruni

Where You Go is Not Who You Ll Be: an Antidote to the College Admissions Mania Frank Bruni

Publisher Marketing: Year after year, high school seniors open rejection letters that destroy their confidence and lead them to believe they have failed at one of life s most critical junctures something that has happened in so many American households with college-bound kids. While there are countless books teaching people how to identify and get into the colleges of their dreams, there s a deep need for dialogue questioning the intensity of those dreams, emphasizing that the college admissions moment isn t the most important in a lifetime, illustrating that college is what a student makes of it, and exhorting people to look at it in a different, less status-oriented way. Expanding on an April 2014 column titled, Our Crazy College Crossroads which went viral, generated numerous emails to Bruni, and topped the most viewed and most emailed categories of the "New York Times" for days "Where You Go Is Not Who You ll Be" is the manifesto that puts the college admissions process into desperately needed perspective. It not only dissects the limited meaning of a rigged and sometimes random admissions process, it also discusses many of the hugely successful Americans who "didn t" go to Ivy League schools. It sketches profiles of young adults who were denied their dream colleges but found that the schools where they ended up were perfect for them, making the case that the attitude with which a student approaches college matters more than the college itself. It presents data and expert opinions that question the advantages of diplomas from Ivy League schools (and their ilk) and looks at the abundance of fantastic schools and fantastic programs outside the few dozen elite institutions that parents focus relentlessly on. All the while, Bruni weaves in larger life lessons that setbacks can be springboards, that the wisest course isn t always the most obvious one that make this book a corrective tool and a balm not just for high school graduates eyeing the horizon."Where You Go Is Not Who You ll Be" serves as a thought-provoking antidote, an impassioned rallying cry, and a poignant retort to aspirational thinking." Review Citations: Booklist 02/15/2015 pg. 14 (EAN 9781455532698, Open Ebook) - *Starred Review Kirkus Reviews 01/01/2015 (EAN 9781455532704, Hardcover) Library Journal 02/01/2015 pg. 92 (EAN 9781455532704, Hardcover) Publishers Weekly 01/26/2015 (EAN 9781455532704, Hardcover) Booklist 02/15/2015 pg. 14 (EAN 9781455532704, Hardcover) - *Starred Review New York Times Book Review 03/29/2015 pg. 13 (EAN 9781455532704, Hardcover) New York Times Book Review 04/05/2015 pg. 26 (EAN 9781455532704, Hardcover) Contributor Bio:  Bruni, Frank Frank Bruni, an op-ed columnist for "The New York Times" since June 2011, joined the newspaper in 1995. Over his years there he has worn a wide variety of hats, including chief restaurant critic from June 2004 through August 2009 and Rome bureau chief from 2002 to 2004. He has also written two "New York""Times" bestsellers: a memoir titled "Born Round" and "Ambling Into History", a chronicle of George W. Bush s campaign for the presidency.