Octavia Standley

From Me to Us Octavia Standley

If the average person would be honest, they would admit that at the moment of disagreement "self-preservation" and "self-interest" kicks in. In our red angry faces, stiffened posture, hands on the hips finger pointing stances, we are prepared to defend our ideology, principles, thoughts and beliefs to the death, even the death of a relationship or marriage! Obviously if you think it's right it must be right, correct? May I submit to you for your consideration that maybe just maybe this initial reaction to disagreement may just be the cause of many separations and divorce? While I'm at it, might I further suggest that if you just "DIE" (I'll explain this later) there is a great possibility that you can save your marriage and rekindle the fire you once had?Through my own marital experiences and by counseling numerous other married couples, I've found that the "Key" to a happy marriage, the "Key" to rekindling the fires of passion that have fizzled out is so simple to use and at the same time so hard to apply!A successful marriage all hinges on your ability to..... DIE TO SELF!