David Tensen

So I Wrote You a Poem David Tensen

In January 2021, Instagram followers were invited to message author David Tensen with a life story they wanted made into a poem. More than 60 people wrote in with stories spanning divorce, loss, trauma, parenting, ableism, same-sex attraction, suicide, PTSD, parenting, religious shame and more.




Drawing from deep empathy, and with a desire to give dignity and voice to those often shamed and ostracised, David wrote a collection of poems every day for twenty-one days. This special collection of 25 poems is a tribute to the common loss and hope we all share.




This is David's second poetry collection. His best-selling debut 2020 collection, 'The Wrestle', is also available worldwide




The following is a poem from the collection. It features in the chapter, 'On Marriage'




FOR THE ONE WHO WAS BETRAYED

(To the betrayer)




There is a tree by our home

that fell in a storm

on the path

I walked to belonging.




I assumed this was our path,

and perhaps it was,

but the storm -

that was your betrayal.




Torn from the earth.

Branches broken.

Leaves strewn like confetti

on our wedding day.




Roots, now exposed,

shamefully waving at passers-by,

remind me

of what was sown in secret.




Trunk, now splintered,

piercing those who dare to pry,

remind me

of your unrepentant reasoning.




I've been tempted,

more than once,

to nest in the wreckage

but you won't find me there.




Instead, I'll be in the forest

forging new paths

through forgiveness

and a fog of grief,

vowing to love myself

more than you ever did.




David Tensen