Dr. Taha

Self-conditioning and Sexuality: Practical Information About Sex and Sexuality Dr. Taha

"This book provides practical, and direct information about sex, and sexual orientation. It is based on my clinical experience in the field of STI/HIV and on my personal philosophy on the concept of conditioning, sanity elements, belief system and e-spot. The first half of the book discuss the role of the senses and the impact of conditioning on human self and sanity; and the second half explores the role of the environment (family, culture and the media) on human sexual desire and highlights the impacts of sex on humanity. I thank all the patients and people who share their stories with me and hope that this book will help to promote peace, and sexual health awareness.

Sexual Desire in Men
Sexual desire is an instinct and is influenced by the competency of the sanity elements, five senses, and ANS reflex. Penile erection in men is a voluntarily and involuntary process during awake time and is involuntarily during sleep. After puberty, penile erection, wet dreams (nocturnal emission) which include orgasm, and ejaculation can occur during sleep without any physical or muscular efforts. The conditioning of the sanity elements, especially belief system, feeling and emotions at early childhood has a major influence on human sexuality. Sexual response in men is also influenced by their medical and psychological status. Certain medications and illnesses such as anxiety, depression, vascular diseases, neurological diseases and endocrine diseases, and tumors can cause failure of erection or impotence. Uncontrolled diabetes mellitus is a common cause of impotence.

During adolescence, boys start to be conscious about the growth of their body and genitals. Some of them become concerned about the size of their penis. However, ejaculation in men is not influenced by the length of the penis, but by the ejaculation spot or "e-spot," which is located just below the head of the penis. Hence, ejaculation can be achieved even with a small penis. Metaphorically, this area represents the "existence" spot as without its stimulation; human generation may have not been existed. Without erection and ejaculation, men can't consummate a marriage. The latter may cause anxiety and shame to the groom, and in certain cultures it may lead to divorce and loss of the groom's money and dignity. In contrast, after many years of marriage, impotence may cause anxiety to the wife as she may feel unattractive.

Potentially, any healthy, mature man can make voluntary penile erection at any time by fantasizing, and without the need for a sexual object. However, not all men are able to develop sexual fantasy or voluntary erection, especially anxious men. Anxiety and fear from failing to achieve erection and ejaculation can be very distressing to men after marriage, and in some men, it may last for months. "